| It is selfish to put your needs before others' needs. | You have a right to put yourself first sometime. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | It is shameful to make mistakes. You should have an appropriate response for every
                                 situation. | You have a right to make mistakes. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | If you can't convince others that your feelings are reasonable, then the feelings
                                 must be wrong, or maybe you are going crazy. | You have a right to be the final judge of your feelings and accept them as legitimate. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | You should respect the views of others, especially if they are in a position of authority.
                                 Keep your differences of opinion to yourself. Listen and learn. | You have a right to have your own opinions and convictions. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | You should always try to be logical and consistent. | You have a right to change your mind or decide on a different course of action. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | You should be flexible and adjust. Others have good reasons for their actions and
                                 it's not polite to question them. | You have a right to protest unfair treatment or criticism. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | You should never interrupt people. Asking questions reveals your stupidity to others. | You have a right to interrupt in order to ask for clarification. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | Things could get even worse, don't rock the boat. | You have a right to negotiate for change. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | You shouldn't take up others' valuable time with your problems. | You a have a right to ask for help or emotional support. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | People don't want to hear that you feel bad, so keep it to yourself. | You have a right to feel and express pain. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | When someone takes the time to give you advice, you should take it very seriously.
                                 They are often right. | You have a right to ignore the advice of others. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | Knowing that you did something well is its own reward. People don't like show-offs.
                                 Successful people are secretly disliked and envied. Be modest when complimented. | You have a right to receive formal recognition for you work and achievements. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | You should always try and accommodate others. If you don't, they won't be there when
                                 you need them. | You have a right to say no. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | Don't be antisocial. People will think you don't like them if you say you'd rather
                                 be alone than spend time with them. | You have a right to be alone, even if others would prefer to spend time with you. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | You should always have a good reason for what you feel and do. | You have a right not to justify yourself to others. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | When someone is in trouble, you should help them. | You have a right not to take responsibility for someone else's problem. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | You should be sensitive to the needs and wishes of others, even when they are unable
                                 to tell you what they want. | You have a right not to have to anticipate others' needs and wishes. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | It's always a good policy to stay on people's good side. | You have a right not to always worry about the goodwill of others. | 
                           
                           
                              
                              | It's not nice to put other people off. If questioned, give an answer. | You have a right to choose not to respond to a situation. |